The worst one is where someone couldn’t care less. The ones where one partner stops feeling anything about the other one. We cannot even tell you the number of times where couples broke up, and one partner said they ‘hated’ the other person and we still saw them get back together within a couple of weeks or months.ĭo you know which couples we do not see getting back together? The only difference is that it rides the opposite wave. Just like love is an emotion, hatred too is an equally strong emotion. Don’t Feel Anything Positive Or Negative About You Instead, improve upon your shortcomings in order to have fulfilling relationships in the future. Therefore, don’t be too harsh on yourself if your ex didn’t feel happy with you. Had you met someone, they might have been the ones searching the answer for ‘Does my first love still think of me’. It is just that they happened to meet someone new before you. Meeting someone new romantically is always an exciting thing and often makes us forget about our ex. They or even your meeting someone was bound to happen sooner than later. Hurts, doesn’t it? Let it, because the sad truth is that you have no control over their life. If They Meet Someone Newįinally, we address the dreadful part that keeps you awake at night. It is thinking actively that we are concerned about here. When we become accustomed to routine chores with schedules that do not even allow us to breathe, remembering our first love becomes a distant thing.Ī thought or two here and there about the time spent doesn’t count. Maybe it gave an altogether different path to their life.Īnd even if something of that magnitude did not happen, it is quite possible that the monotony of life set in. What seems to you just a few months or years since you two parted ways, something life-changing might have happened to them in the meanwhile. When You Become A Distant MemoryĪfter you, it is quite possible that a lot of things may have happened in their life. Your first love surely doesn’t miss you now, but will they in the future or not is an altogether different question. In that moment of euphoria, do you even have an iota of care about things around you? People with whom you had fallen out in the past.ĭo they matter? When we are doing good in life, our past struggles or sorrows cease to exist within our memory. Or chuck it, imagine yourself being just happy, irrespective of the fact that whether you are in a relationship or not. Imagine yourself being in a happy relationship. This is more in continuation of our short answer above. This is a significant improvement over trying to find a ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ answer to whether your first love thinks about you or not. Why are we doing that?īecause failing to educate yourself will make you repeat the same mistakes that you did in your first relationship.Īlso, we hope that by reading these, you will be able to assess your situation in a much better way and know the reasons behind the answer you find. We will be laying out different reasons as to when or not your first love thinks about you. When Does Your First Love NOT Think About You? So, those of you who have been looking for a definite answer, you are in for some major disappointment. TABLE: People Missing Their First Love At Different Stages Of Life Time Since First Breakup Met Someone Better? Still Think About First Love? (Majority) Percentage Of People Who Still Miss Their First Love < 3years No Yes 94% < 3years Yes No 7% 3-5 years No Yes 89% 3-5 years Yes No 9% 6-10 years No No 42% 6-10 years Yes No 4% 11-20 years No No 29% 11-20 years Yes No 7% 21-50 years No No 26% 21-50 years Yes No 33% 50+ years No Yes 52% 50+ years Yes Yes 51% Source: Based on a study by consisting of 478 individuals between the ages of 18-75 years. Similarly, we have several instances where the other forgot about their ex as soon as they moved into a new relationship. We have several cases of relationships falling apart where one person thought about their first love even after sixty long years. This goal will set the tone of the article. With a clear goal, we are in a much better position to help you deal with the question and your feelings in general. The goal here is to help you see things more clearly and ultimately take better actions. We will tackle these scenarios one by one. But if they’ve had a far better experience with someone else, you are not on their mind anymore. Your first love still thinks of you if they didn’t get into a better relationship than what they had with you. Does my first love still think of me as much as I do? Now, let us rephrase the question the way it should be. Getting over a loved one isn’t easy and if they get over us quickly, it hurts even more.